I have come to realize that Brussels is just the same as Malmö. Same but different. (of course!)
Since my big move over to the capital of Europe in June of 2009, I have been seemingly effortlessly trying to get the hang of Brussels nightlife. I’m saying nightlife here because it is for me top priority if I am to be settled in a new city – and in this case – a new country. Effortless because I may not have been as effective as I could have been by doing more Internet research before the weekend or becoming member of more Facebook groups, or connecting more socially on the web. Or even in real life for that matter. It’s just harder to get to know people in a new place when the only thing you do is work and hang out with work colleagues. Unless you have work colleagues who already have a lot of “alien” friends and you get to tag along.
But now it seems I am either always floating about as usual, or it is just destiny helping me into the right tracks. Because I am slowly starting to understand that:
1. Brussels is a city where you have to know the “right” crowd in order to benefit from the multiple places of dance and spirits – Yes, they do exist.
2. Brussels is a city with door men who like any other door men in any other city likes well dressed, non intoxicated people. – Yes, they have the right to decide who gets into the club. It’s their business and not a government, non profit, all for all organization. A club rarely is, unless you want to hang out with lefty 18 year old indies.
Honestly, Social Media has made it far too easy to start a new life in a new city. It is way easier to get to know someone by Twitter, Facebook or mail and get those contacts you need for getting into a club – at all hours. Than lurking around the door men or owners trying to get their attention one way or the other.
I have never encountered the problem in Malmö since I had the fortune of being a member of the Restaurant people elite (oooo wooow -I know!). Since I worked in the most prominent places I was also welcomed in those or other clubs. Until one day, when I had to stand in line for a new place that had opened: “Debaser“. All of a sudden there was a club who accepted everyone as long as they queued (?!) All of a sudden I had to queue! What did I do? Well I tried with one of the worst lines you can ever imagine:
Please, pretty please! I am 30!
OMG, you can imagine the look of the door man. He did not know whether to pity me or just sign me of as a mental patient. He chose non and discarded me like all the rest who would not queue.
PS. That’s actually not the whole story. You see I actually did queue for a while before hitting the door. Well, kind of anyways.. I jumped over the fence to join my buddies who were half way through the queue. One of the door men saw it immediately and came up to me and kindly said:
You can leave now or when you reach the door. It’s your choice.
And you know the ending…

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